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The price is right for . . . a new car!!

Here is our brand new car! It’s a 2007 Hyundai Sonata, “deepwater blue.”


I like it. And yes, it was car B. It was also dealership 1. We really enjoyed our experience with our car dealership; very low pressure. They almost forgot to have us pay, though.

In case you were wondering, car A/dealership 2 was Toyota and car C/dealership 3 was Honda.

It hasn’t set in yet, but I’m not sure if it ever will…

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Work

Fortunate one

It’s funny how losing your job can change your outlook on things. Normally, when I see a ‘House for Sale’ sign, I think “Investment opportunity?” Now my first thought is “Aw, they must’ve lost their job and can’t afford that house anymore. That’s so sad.” (Don’t worry, that’s not our situation at all.)

Yesterday, after the bad news came in, my old coworkers and I all went to a Chinese buffet. I thought that work should have paid for it, since we were all suddenly uninvited to the work Christmas lunch on Monday, but oh well.

At the end of our lunch, we got our fortune cookies. The two people who were not laid off got the same fortune—something about having a problem.

My fortune was pretty positive: “You will have a chance soon to make a profitable transaction.” ( 1 25 30 34 36 38)

Let’s hope so!

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Random Work

End of the idyll?

Last night, I was remarking to Ryan how idyllic our life really is. I mean, it’s tough to get up several times a night (HAYDEN SLEPT THROUGH THE NIGHT LAST NIGHT!!!), but I’m not worrying about Hayden making bad choices or talking back or anything bad like that.

Also yesterday, I was given the opportunity to post to a work-related blog. It’s actually the place that hosted the contest I was in a couple months ago. That’s cool. I’m pretty excited—it’s a pretty well-known blog, so I could get to be just a little bit famous in my sector. Kind of mind boggling.

Then there’s today. I get a message from my supervisor—if there’s anyway I can come in today, she needs me to. She has bad news. What, I won’t get a raise? Maybe the parent company doesn’t want to have WAHMs on their staff anymore? My e-mail stops working.

I finally get up with my supervisor—our parent company has decided to close our entire division. A few employees will stay on through February, and 2-3 will stay on permanently. The rest, including all of our management, are supposed to clear out of their offices by the end of today.

I’ve been laid off. Hm. Oh well. I’ll miss my coworkers, but I don’t get to see them very often anyway. I’m not overly concerned about finding something else, possibly because just last Friday my supervisor and I discussed opportunities for me/us outside of the company. We kind of thought that the parent company would drive our division into the ground—I guess they decided not to prolong our suffering.

Oh well, I got severance pay. Maybe I should go collect unemployment.

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Random Ryan/Married Life

Let me get my manager…

Ryan and I are buying a car, probably this week. Last weekend we went and did test drives for our top three picks. Poor Haydie—that’s a lot of time in the car seat.

Our top three picks are (in no particular order) the Honda Accord, the Hyundai Sonata and the Toyota Camry. See if you can match the cars to my descriptions of the cars and dealer experiences.

  • Car A—A nice car—of course, it isn’t the lowest trim line either. Anyway, it’s a little bit tight getting the car seat in the back. Leg room seems a little smaller in the back. Radio controls on the steering wheel. Cool. Where’s the keyboard so I can text 😉 ? Handles nicely, quiet ride, good acceleration, but overall a pretty short drive.
  • Car B—Also a nice car. This is the lowest trim line, but has some features that other cars didn’t, including map lights and a sunglass case. I like the layout of the “cockpit,” with the cupholders, storage, etc. Backseat seems to have plenty of legroom. The gearshift (automatic) has a pretty convoluted track. Didn’t pay attention to noise, but I didn’t notice any. Vehicle stability is standard.
  • Car C—Radio controls on the steering wheel. That’s nice. A nice car… nothing extremely remarkable. Good drive.

Hayden got tipped over in the back seat once and it took us a few minutes to realize it and fix it 🙁 . Wouldn’t happen with the LATCH system, though. (LATCH is required on all cars, so not a selling point.)

  • Dealer 1—We look around for a few minutes at cars. Of course, we’re a little bit lost—there’s no real system to arranging cars in a lot. After a bit a salesman approaches us. He’s quite helpful and offers to pull a car out for us to look at. The first car he tries doesn’t start :/ . He gets a car out for us, we inspect it. The four of us (Ryan, Hayden, sales guy and me) get in and take it around the block. We drop off the sales guy and he finally tells us his name. We take off for 20 minutes. I get to drive, too. We come back—the show room’s under construction, and it’s noisy. He lets us sit in the training room so it’s not as loud for the baby. We have to wait a little while. He gives us a verbal quote of the final price (well below MSRP) and mentions a deal for 1.9% financing. That’s about it—no pressure. We get a viewbook for the car and a reprint of a favorable article.
  • Dealer 2—We look for a few minutes at cars before a sales guy approaches us. He lets us take out a higher trim line (trying to upsell us?). After a shortish drive, we come back. He invites us in. We see popcorn and a soda fountain. We are not offered any. We ask him to compare his car to other less expensive options. He almost balks: “It’s a [Brand]…” Assures us that there would be a big difference if we could see them side by side. Something about a solid feeling in the car when you slam the door shut. (My dad would kill me if I slammed the door shut!) He gives us a computer printed quote (lower than we’d expected, but just slightly below MSRP) and a viewbook for the car. Even less pressure than the first place. We only catch his name because his card is stapled to the viewbook.
  • Dealer 3—We get approached pretty quickly. The sales guy actually gives us his name! He comes with us for the whole test drive. When we get back, he shows us the optional leather seats. I don’t want leather seats, but he didn’t ask that question. Again, we drove a higher trim line than we’d wanted to. Apparently, there aren’t ANY of the economy trim line on this lot or the next nearest dealer’s lot. Hm… Gets us hot chocolate and a viewbook. Sales guy writes up a quote while we look at colors. Don’t have the color I like. He asks what color I want, I pick an okay color, he goes to check if there are any on the lot. There are. He asks if we’re Costco members. We are, so that’ll get us a better deal. We know this. According to Costco, if we go through them we’ll get a few thousand knocked off. Sales guy goes to talk with his manager to get us our best price. He knocks off $640. Golly, what a deal. Still well over MSRP. Manager comes over to talk to us. We ask him to compare brands. He tells us that this car is the most popular car in America. That’s neat, but “Everybody’s doing it” didn’t work on us even when we were in high school. Hayden is approaching melt down (this is our exit strategy). Manager: “What can I do to get you folks in a [Brand] today?” Nothing—we’re not buying today. Hands down, absolutely not. Takes us a few minutes to convince him of this fact. Meanwhile, Hayden’s starting to freak. Still, the meeting ends amicably enough.

It’s tough. As one guy at a dealership put it, “It’s difficult because all new cars are nice.” Can you tell which car and dealership is the nicest to us? And can you tell which car they match to?

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Kids/Parenting

Baby on board

These pictures are from the last month. Do you think this indicates that we’ve been on the go too much?

Floating head!

Cute outfit, cute hat. I love that hat.

Another sherpa hat shot, this one from today. As you can see, he’s becoming quite attached to his cell phone. Almost as bad as his parents.

Maybe part of the reason I take so many carseat pictures is that he actually stays still long enough for me to get the pictures there!

Edited to add one more photo that I found from yesterday:All bundled up
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Kids/Parenting

I only have eyes for you, Mom

I read somewhere that when babies are newborns, they don’t perceive that there’s a difference between themselves and their moms. It’s as if they can’t tell where Mom ends and where “I” begin. As they mature, they soon develop a sense of self. I think the article said that by about 3-4 months, Baby begins to perceive himself as a distinct person.

Of course, this trend will continue throughout his life, strengthening especially after learning the words “no” and “myself” and spiking again in the teenage years, particularly around the time of the issuance of a driver’s license.

But I digress. Obviously, Hayden gets that he’s his own person. He quite likes being his own person, I think. But something that he hasn’t learned yet is that I’m not everyone’s Mommy.

One afternoon at my parents’ house he wanted me to hold him. I picked him up and he turned to the rest of my family and grinned—and I swear he was at least a little smug. It’s as if he thought that everyone was competing for my attention, and he won. What he has yet to learn is that no one else in that room cared the way he did.

I think babies think everyone loves their mamas the way they do. Let’s hope it lasts as long as possible. All too soon, Hayden’s going to figure out that Mom isn’t the be-all and end-all, and it’s downhill from there, especially in those teenage years.