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Doing God’s work

Someone in church shared a really interesting quote in their talk a few weeks ago, so I wrote it down. When I got home, I Googled it, and found the talk it came from. The line is at the end of this quote (emphasis is mine):

Who does God’s work will get God’s pay,
However long may seem the day,
However weary be the way.
No mortal hand, God’s hand can stay,
He may not pay as others pay,
In gold, or lands, or raiments gay,
In goods that perish and decay;
But God’s high wisdom knows a way,
And this is sure, let come what may—
Who does God’s work will get God’s pay.

I testify to you that God’s pay is the best pay that this world or any other world knows anything about.

The poem and the quote come from a talk about putting God first in our lives. So often when I hear about putting the Lord first, or doing the Lord’s work, I think of the noble pursuits in theology and evangelism and service—all things I really don’t have as much time and effort and me available for with the amount of those things motherhood requires. So, I wonder, am I not putting the Lord first? Am I not giving enough?

But as I read the full address this quote comes from, I came across a paragraph that supported a belief I’ve clung to for reassurance. (Having it set out as a doctrine of my faith makes me feel a little better too 😉 .) (Emphasis mine again, too.)

You mothers who are especially charged with the righteous rearing of the youth of Zion, are you not putting God first when you honor your divine calling by not leaving the homefront to follow the ways of the world? Our mothers put God first when they fill their highest mission within the walls of their own homes.

While there’s always more we can do for the Lord, knowing that the biggest, most me-consuming pursuit of my life is serving Him helps me not only feel better about the state of my life, but also remind me just how seriously I should take this calling.

What do you think? What helps you to remember how important motherhood is? What makes you feel better about the amount of time and effort you devote to Sisyphus childrearing?

Photo by Heidi & Matt

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Top 100 Pasta Dishes Giveaway

Sadly, I will not be giving away 100 actual pasta dishes—but I’m giving away a cookbook with family-friendly pasta recipes: Top 100 Pasta Dishes: Easy Everyday Recipes That Children Will Love.

I’ve been crazy busy since I received my [Disclosure] free review copy, but I did take a few minutes to look through the recipes (I’m a sucker for cookbooks!). The recipes are designed to be truly family-friendly, and are grouped into chapters according to ages—but don’t let that fool you! The “Baby” recipes are absolutely adult-friendly (and vice versa). They’re also packed with vegetables. Woot!

Each page of recipes features quick guides at the top, too, showing off some of the key information about the recipe at a glance, including age-appropriateness, prep time and more. And the beautiful photos don’t hurt, either.

Since Rebecca has become pretty picky in her eating habits, I’m looking forward to trying our these recipes myself! Author Annabel Karmel says that her recipes are designed to make it so that you only have to cook one meal for your family—no more last-minute PB&Js to satisfy a picky eater. There are also lots of fast and inexpensive meals, and I’m getting hungry just thinking about them.

One lucky winner, chosen at random, will be able to try these dishes out too!

Would you like a copy of Top 100 Pasta Dishes? Comment below to enter!

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Entries (aka comments) must be received by midnight on Saturday, July 30, 2011. Winner to be announced Monday, August 8, 2011.

Giveaway open to residents of the US only.

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Blogoversaryfestathon GWP Finale

Thanks so to everyone who participated in the blogoversaryfestathon Group Writing Project.

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The winna!
Chosen at random, the winner of our prize, a $30 Amazon.com gift certificate, is <drum roll>…

…I will be nine years old. by Esmé Maritz

Congratulations! The gift certificate is winging its way to you (well, your mom) from Amazon right now!

What do you think? Should we bring back the Group Writing Project? If you want to participate but didn’t this time, what do you need from me to help you?

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Totally Together Giveaway Winner

Agh! I’m double booked for announcements today! I’m going to push announcing the Group Writing Project winner to tomorrow—last minute entries are welcome!

I’m already using my free review copy of Totally Together by Stephanie O’Dea—and soon I won’t be the only one!

The winner of a copy of Totally Together, chosen at random (I promise, and thank you, Random.org) from the comments, iiiiss……

An Ordinary Mom!

We’ll get your copy of Totally Together on its way to you soon!

Thanks to everyone who entered.

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Group Writing Project Entries (so far)

You still have one more day (until the end of Saturday, that is) to enter the MamaBlogga Blogoversaryfestathon Group Writing Project, with the theme of “Five years from now.” Come join these four great entries (and one from me, but I feel weird calling myself “great”):

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And remember, one lucky winner, chosen at random, will receive a $30 Amazon gift card!

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Planning to fail

Don’t forget to enter the Five Years From Now Blogoversaryfestathon Group Writing Project! And happy anniversary, Ryan!

In church on Sunday, one of the speakers was talking about what a difference a good attitude makes. He used an example from a Primary (children’s Sunday School) manual, which I’m way too lazy to try to find, so I’ll just paraphrase:

You’re moving and you’re afraid you won’t have any friends. How would having a poor attitude affect you in this situation? A good attitude?

The speaker left the hypothetical at that, but as I sat there, I thought through my answers.

  • Poor attitude: you’re pessimistic about making friends, so you assume that people you meet wouldn’t want to be friends. You don’t go out of your way to meet people. When new people meet you, you’re shy or just plain unfriendly, and they can tell you don’t expect to make friends.
  • Good attitude: you’re confident you’ll be able to make friends. You introduce yourself to everyone you see, you put yourself in situations to make new friends, you bring neighbor gifts around, and you look for people you can form long term friendships with. People see how friendly you are and return the gesture.

Rachel being super positive!!!!!!!!Your attitude can really dictate your reality. Both having a good attitude and a poor one become self-fulfilling prophecies. Having a poor attitude leads to self-defeating behaviors, while having a good attitude helps you come up with strategies to cope with the challenges coming.

At least half the time, I wake up in the morning already behind. My two older children are already up watching cartoons or playing on the computer, and the baby is crying for me to come get her. I’m not nearly rested enough, and I can just see the patterns of too much screen time, impatience and bickering starting to take shape.

But maybe I can make a difference. Maybe I can stop the downward spiral before it starts. Some strategies to cope when I’m already starting behind would include:

  • Prayer.
  • Plan. Come up with a fun activity at home or out and about, so you have something to do instead of veg in front of the TV.
  • Eat well, maybe planning out meals and snacks for you and your kids. This sounds a little unusual, but catch-as-can grazing throughout the day contributes to that feeling of being out of control for me.

As I was drafting this post, I also came across a post by Jen from Conversion Diary on our steps for starting your day the right way—and she started out even further behind than I usually do.

What do you think? What difference does a positive mental attitude make? How do you cope when you feel like you’re starting from behind?