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		<title>How to share</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 22:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I knew it had to happen sooner or later: like all first children, Hayden is having some issues with sharing. Or, to put it bluntly, stealing Rebecca&#8217;s toys. (As a reminder, Hayden is almost 3 and a half and Rebecca will be one tomorrow.) How have you successfully taught your kids to share? How does [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I knew it had to happen sooner or later: like all first children, Hayden is having some issues with sharing. Or, to put it bluntly, stealing Rebecca&#8217;s toys.</p>
<p>(As a reminder, Hayden is almost 3 and a half and Rebecca will be one tomorrow.)</p>
<p>How have you successfully taught your kids to share?</p>
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		<title>Thoughts on motherhood&#8211;from people other than me</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Apr 2009 02:55:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jordan</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Surprisingly enough, I&#8217;m not the only person out there thinking deep thoughts/wallowing in existential angst about motherhood. I come across blog posts that really inspire me or challenge my way of thinking about motherhood, I bookmark them to blog about later and . . . I forget. So, today I&#8217;m catching up on some of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Surprisingly enough, I&#8217;m not the only person out there thinking deep thoughts/wallowing in existential angst about motherhood.  I come across blog posts that really inspire me or challenge my way of thinking about motherhood, I bookmark them to blog about later and . . . I forget.  So, today I&#8217;m catching up on some of these great posts, with excerpts to show you some of the reasons I bookmarked them in the first place.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.conversiondiary.com/2009/02/stress-and-fear.html">Stress and fear</a> from Conversion Diary</strong>: </p>
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I am very likely to get in a mental state where I just give in to anxiety and stress and self-pity and all sorts of other negative emotions &#8212; not because I have actually been given more than I can handle, but because I because I see a long day and a longer week stretching before me, and unless something changes I&#8217;ll reach some kind breaking point and I will have more than I can handle. In other words, I&#8217;m afraid.
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.conversiondiary.com/2009/02/why-my-life-is-better-since-becoming.html">Why my life is better since becoming open to life </a> also from Conversion Diary</strong></p>
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A product of secular society, I&#8217;d fallen into the common notion that the way to find true happiness is to focus on yourself more and other people less. It makes perfect sense, after all: doing pleasurable things for me is fun, sacrifice and hard work are not fun; ergo, the secret to happiness must be to live for myself as much as possible. Right?</p>
<p>How shocked I was to discover that I was wrong &#8212; dead wrong. Part of fully understanding the concept of vocation was understanding that a vocation is not to be thought of as &#8220;what you do&#8221; as much as it is &#8220;whom you serve.&#8221;
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<p><strong><a href="http://segullah.org/small-epiphanies/beyond-mommy-knowing-who-i-am/">Beyond Mommy: Knowing Who I Am</a> by the fantastic Annette Lyon on Blog Segullah</strong></p>
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Laura made it clear in no uncertain terms that once you had kids, wanting to be anything but their mother was selfish, wrong. She was thirty years my senior, a mother of ten. I was an 18-year-old college freshman. What did I know about motherhood and womanhood?</p>
<p>Maybe I was off my rocker. Maybe losing yourself was something good mothers did.</p>
<p>I struggled with the issue even after becoming a mom. I&#8217;d carved out a &#8220;me&#8221; area but worried it made me an inferior mother. . . .
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<p><strong><a href="http://www.whataboutmomblog.com/2009/03/28/joy-in-the-journey/#comment-28369">Joy in the Journey</a> from a member of Jane&#8217;s ward on What About Mom</strong></p>
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I remember one particular time when I just HAD to clean out the refrigerator.  My then three-year-old son was lonely because his sister was in school.  He kept whining and bugging me to pick him up.  I resisted and ended up getting angry at him and making him go take a nap, because I had an &#8220;important&#8221; job to do.  Now I realize that HE was my important job.  That certainly is not the only incident I could relate.  I DO feel those pangs of guilt and remorse for not making Tyler the most important chore of the day.
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<p><strong><a href="http://scribbit.blogspot.com/2009/04/lessons-learned-from-country-bunny-and_09.html">Lessons Learned from <em>The Country Bunny and the Little Gold Shoes</em></a> by Scribbit </strong></p>
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<li>Moms have dreams too and not only is it okay to have interests outside of your children it&#8217;s a healthy thing that usually makes you a better mom if you don&#8217;t let it take over your <em>real</em> job.</li>
<li>Motherhood takes amazing skill to be done properly but it <em>can</em> be done.</li>
<li>Motherhood, while eternal, won&#8217;t always require the same things of me as it does now&#8211;it will change as I do.</li>
<li>There are plenty of people who value motherhood so don&#8217;t undersell your talents or abilities or think you&#8217;re alone.</li>
<li>Women can do most things just as well as men though usually in their own unique way.</li>
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<p>These excerpts are only the beginning of the wisdom about motherhood these wonderful women have imparted, so be sure to check them all out!</p>
<p>What are your favorite posts about motherhood, from this list or from anywhere on the Internet?</p>
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