If you’ve participated in the BlogOlympics, whether you’ve completed no medals or all three, please comment on this post (even if you’ve commented on the BlogOlympics post) to be included in the closing ceremonies tomorrow!
Please also tell what medal you’ve earned and which events you’ve completed!
Here are some pictures from our vacation, specifically from the Museum of Life and Science.
Head in the clouds (a cloud-making bowl in the weather room)
Snake charmer
Climbing out of the Apollo Command Module Test Vehicle
Mission control (what they’ve put inside the Apollo Command Module Test Vehicle).
Hayden and his friend Ethan found a puddle at the park. After plenty of stomping and splashing, they found another way to play in the water:
Looking for your gold medal event for the BlogOlympics? Why not submit a guest post to a host blog? Read on to learn the why and how of guest blogging—and how to get the most out of your guest post.
Why should you guest blog?
Mostly because it’s totally fun! Okay, so there are other reasons: it helps drive traffic to your blog and helps to establish you as an authority on your chosen subject. In fact, it helped to get me my professional blogging gig (over on my work blog). Guest blogging also helps to build relationships with other bloggers, introduce you to new readers and increase your subscribers.
How should you guest blog?
Of course, guest blogging is only of benefit to the host and the guest if done properly. You must research the blog, write the post and contact the blogger. And yes, in that order.
Research blogs
The best place to begin looking for blogs to guest post on is in your feed reader—blogs you already know and enjoy reading. If you’re already familiar with a blog, that makes the research phase that much easier. You can also discover new blogs from commenters on your blog, your favorite blogs’ blogrolls, searches and other links.
To most effectively leverage your guest blogging, target a blog with an audience that’s similar to yours. Guest posting on a photography blog might not get you very many subscribers to your cat blog, but guest posting on another cat blog might. Guest posting on a blog about cat grooming might also bring in more visitors. (Remember, too, that it’s not about competition in the blogosphere—it’s about community building.)
Once you’ve selected the blog(s) you’d like to target, make sure you know what kind of post they’d accept. If you’re not already familiar with the “mission” and audience of a blog, look at the About page, the author bio and the categories to get a feel for the different areas the blog addresses. Read through at least three posts to get a feel for the blog’s style—is it personal, conversational, informal, professional, informational, preachy? You don’t necessarily have to write in the same style, but it’s good to understand what kind of blog you’re writing for.
Also look around to see if the blog already has a guest posting policy—no submissions, submissions via e-mail, queries first, etc. Be sure to follow those guidelines!
Write the post
Once you have a feel for the style and topics of the blog, write a guest post specifically for that blog. Unless the blogger has specifically stated otherwise, it’s generally poor form to cut-and-paste one of your old blog posts or a guest post that you’ve already posted on another blog.
As you write the post, look for ways that you can interlink the post with articles from not only your blog but also the host blog as well. Making that extra effort to integrate your post into the host blog will most likely impress your host and make the post act as a solid bridge between your blog and the host’s.
Add value to the host’s blog with your post. This is especially important if you’re sending an unsolicited submission: make your post as useful as possible to the host blog’s readers so the host blogger can’t cut and paste your submission fast enough.
Contact the blogger
When you’ve finished your post (or at least a draft that you’d be willing to share), contact the host blogger, via email if possible. Don’t force them to read through the entire post to figure out what you want.
In your introduction, tell how you found the blog (or how long you’ve subscribed, if you can’t remember how you found it anymore). Be sure to introduce yourself and explain how you’ve come to write about the topic as well. It certainly helps if the blogger recognizes your name from your frequent, valuable contributions to his/her blog in the comments. Mention a few articles or aspects of the host blog that you particularly liked, then say that you’ve written a post that would appeal to their readers.
Summarize your post, hitting the best points and making it clear how your post would appeal to the host blog’s readers. This is especially important if the blogger has a policy of taking only query letters first, but it can help get your foot in the door with almost any blogger.
Include your post either in the body of the email or as an attachment. (In my opinion, the body of the email is always a safe bet.)
Another way to make your post more appealing: contact the blogger at an “opportune moment.” Darren Rowse at ProBlogger (who doesn’t really need the exposure) posted today about helping a blogging friend out with a guest post when he saw that his friend was sick. Going on vacation, taking a blog break, moving, having a baby, and, of course, asking for guest bloggers are all examples of times that bloggers would appreciate the hand.
Leveraging Your Guest Blogging
Of course, I’ve already mentioned one way to leverage your guest blogging—include a link or two to a post on your blog. This is one of those times where you get to choose the anchor text of the link, so choose wisely (the anchor text, the underlined text that forms the link, is taken into account when calculating search engine rankings). “Click here” and “read more” aren’t descriptive or helpful to readers or search engines.
If your targeted blogger is amenable, you’re well on your way to getting the most out of guest blogging. Ask your host blogger to include your short biography at the beginning and/or end of the post. Provide the biography yourself to minimize your host blogger’s work load and make sure you get it all right.
Elements to include in your biography:
An example biography:
Ellodie McPherson has raised and showed Turkish swimming cats for sixteen years. She blogs about her experiences at My Cats Can Swim. You can subscribe to My Cats Can Swim to read more of her thoughts and experiences on cat grooming and cat shows.
If the host blogger agrees, you could include a picture of yourself in your bio. Maybe even with your cats.
Once your post is live, do your best to impress your host by driving traffic to the post. Link to it from your blog; encourage friends, family and readers to visit it and pass it along; and vote for it on social networks (StumbleUpon is a favorite of mine). If you guest blog often, you can do a weekly roundup post like Lorelle on WordPress does, reviewing her best posts on several websites.
Much of these tips were also covered in an interview I did with Create Business Growth last month.
Guest Blogging on MamaBlogga
A couple nights ago I dreamt that I received a blog comment that not only disagreed with my post, but went on to attack everything from my professional work to the layout of my blog, ranting that no one could possibly trust anything said from a site that looked so crappy. (It doesn’t look crappy, does it?) Perhaps this is a sign it’s time for me to back off a little bit. But rather than letting MamaBlogga lie fallow, I’m opening it up for guest blogging.
Interested? Here are the basic guidelines:
I’m looking forward to helping you get the most out of guest blogging!
For more advice and tips from real moms, visit this week’s Works-for-Me Wednesday.
I’ve been tagged by Deb for a middle name meme.
My middle name is Rebecca. I’m named after my great-grandmother on my dad’s side (well, we think her legal name was just Becca, but anyway). I really like my middle name.
Now I’m supposed to come up with adjectives to describe myself based on each letter of my middle name. I can’t remember the last time I tried to do one of these writing exercises.
R – Random. I have a tendency to suddenly jump from topic to topic in conversation. And sometimes I just don’t have the patience to go back and explain my train of thought.
E – Excited. When I first get into a project, I’m super enthusiastic! Sometimes that enthusiasm wanes long before I’m done. Sometimes I manage to finish it anyway.
B – Blogger. In case you hadn’t noticed. 😉
E – Eclectic. Like most people, I have wide-ranging tastes in television shows, music and hobbies. I don’t think my tastes are particularly diverse, but they’re an interesting combination.
C – Crazy. Before I met my husband, one of my criteria for a spouse was that he would be willing to dance to music being played by Brookstone in the airport. (It was “Twist ‘n’ Shout.” Come on, if there’s ever a case for public dancing, that’s it!) I don’t know if Ryan would really do that, though.
C – Clever. Speaking of Ryan, he submitted that one.
A – Assiduous. Dutiful. Workaholic. Committed. Should be committed?
I’m supposed to tag someone for each letter of my name, but I don’t think I even know bloggers with all those letters. So join in in the comments! I love names!
I’ve also received the Nice Matters Award from SingForHim @ RealLife (who was featured on ProBlogger this week!) and Jennifer @ The Life of a School Bus Driver. Thank you ladies!
Just about everyone that I’ve ever contacted in the blogosphere has been nothing but nice, so it’s hard to choose just three people to pass this award on to. But the people who’ve gone out of their way to help me is a little less hard:
So thank you, ladies, for always being so nice to me.
Edited to add: Deb, Mom of 3, also kindly named me as a nice blogger!
It’s been three months since Hayden “customized” my glasses, and I’ve been making do ever since with shoddily-taped-together glasses.
While I was visiting my parents, my mom asked me several times why I haven’t replaced them yet. I didn’t really have a reason, but sometimes I tried to tell myself that my glasses were just one outward manifestation of what it meant to be a mother—sacrificing yourself for your child’s well-being.
And in a way, it was, but the reason is much larger than the martyrdom of motherhood. It’s not that I can’t take time for myself and spend an hour picking out frames and return a week later to have them fitted. It’s the fact that Hayden wouldn’t like it. He probably wouldn’t stand for it.
A lot of the time, I do dwell on the things that I can’t do now that I’m a mother. But last week, I realized that I really could do things like that for myself. It’s that I choose not to. Some of it is because I’m a mom and I feel like I can’t take time for myself, but a lot of it is that I’m not just living for me anymore. I’ve become so accustomed to being Hayden’s mother that I know what he likes to do and what he wants to do—and what will probably make him throw a fit.
But just when I think I know him, he goes and grows up some more. Today we went grocery shopping and throughout the 90-minute trip, he fussed just once (and threw his snacks on the ground just once).
For a few hours, I got to feel like a great mom—he was the happy, zany boy that he is growing up to be. He found his bath hilarious, he thought drumming on his belly hysterical and I was sad to see him go to bed, even though he didn’t make a sound once I laid him in his crib. I was living my life for him for those few hours, and it felt amazing—good enough to forget the many hours I’d tried to work earlier today with Hayden almost constantly clamoring for my attention.
For someone whose only real words are “hai” and “Mommy?Mommy?Mommy?Mommy?Mommy?Mommy?Mommy?” it’s amazing how much he’s changed my life—my priorities, my patience, my expectations—but most of all, today I can really appreciate how my little guy has changed my happiness—even if I can’t wear my glasses out of the house.
This post is part of Summer’s Group Writing Project—hurry to participate this weekend to make it in by the deadline!