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Fulfillment

A very Merry (un)Mother’s Day!

making mothers day merry badgeAre you counting down until Mother’s day? If not, here’s a heads up: it’s coming up in about three weeks (May 11!).

In honor of this most awesome mothering holiday, I’m planning a series of posts on honoring, appreciating and showing appreciation for motherhood. I would love it if you’d join me in making Mother’s day merry!

Naturally, you can do this by reading and commenting on my posts here. You can also do this by specific suggesting subjects for me to write on. But best of all, you can do this by posting your own post about honoring motherhood. You can call for the world to sit up and notice moms; you can remind your kids and husband of all you do for them.

Won’t you join me in celebrating all that mothers have done for us, and continue to do today?

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Kids/Parenting

Good advice from Hayden

Hayden poses in a red jacket from Gummy, 26 monthsLike most children, Hayden has picked up on adult mannerisms and intonations long before he’s mastered the words to go with them. Yesterday, for example, I told him something and he tilted his head to the side as if to say “That’s silly, Mommy. You can’t be serious.”

I tilted my head the same direction to joke with him and he said, “Awwww! Sad?” (To Hayden, everyone is sad, except for outlines of his hands, which should be happy.)


This morning, I was getting Hayden up and I had a song in my head. I started singing it at the line “Tried to touch the sun.”

Hayden looked at me and said, “No touch uh sun. Hot.”

I have no idea how he knows that.

Brownie points to anyone who can name that song—but members of my family should give someone else a chance to get the answer before you post it!

Brownie points not redeemable for actual brownies.

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MetaBlogging

Making a photo post GREAT

Three weeks ago, I gave a couple tips on making photo posts—and then I turned the mic over to you for your input on making photo posts GREAT. Here’s some of the collective wisdom of MamaBlogga readers!:

from the original post, seconded by readers in the comments:

Resize your pictures before uploading them
Figure out how wide your post column is and in a photo editor, resize the image to fit. It looks a lot better than making your browser resize them. And if you make your pictures too wide (post them exactly as they come off your camera, for example), they can break your blog or your readers’ feed readers. We’re probably not going to scroll side-to-side to see pictures of your kids. Sorry.

(Exceptions: if you upload photos to Flickr or Photobucket and they make some good looking, smaller versions, or if you use Blogger. They resize them to look good pretty consistently.)

Reader MamaBugs concurred:

Resizing is vastly important! So is arranging the photos neatly so they don’t seem like they just thrown in the post.

Use pictures in “regular” posts
This is a principle I know (but usually don’t apply) from my professional blogging (i.e. not MamaBlogga), and yet I hadn’t really thought about applying it in the “momblogosphere.” Several readers pointed out the advantages to this method:
Christy:

My favorite posts are those with photos. I have over 150 blogs in my reader and if there are no photos, I often will just skim the text to see if it catches my eye.

Deb, Mom of 3 girls:

I like seeing posts with pictures – I definitely prefer those to ones with just one long paragraph of text. For my own posts, I usually try to either add in funny captions or stick to one topic or event in each post to help with the onslaught of photos…

And warillever gives some great examples:

. . . I can recommend one mommy blog that uses pictures extremely well — Notes from the Trenches. Chris makes liberal use of pictures both as an accent to her textual posts and as the meat of other posts. Even her photo posts, however, include humorous captions that capture the essence of the action.

Look at her Easter (I Hope You Dance) or American Idol (Geeks Gone Wild) for evidence.

Incorporate pictures into your posts
This dovetails with both of the above points and comments. Don’t just throw some pictures into your posts and hope they’ll fit; resize them so that they’ll fit where you want them and arrange them nicely.

Typical conventions for using images in posts are “smaller” pictures (ones that don’t take up most of your horizontal post space) aligned to the right or left with relevant text wrapping around them and larger images breaking up the text, usually centered, and sometimes with captions underneath them.

And, of course, key in incorporating your images with your posts is making them relevant to one another. Some topics (like our kids 😉 ) would seem incomplete without some sort of photo reference. This doesn’t mean you have to write a post describing exactly what’s going on in the photo; you can use your imagination (and humorous captions) to make even a tenuous connection.

Over the last few weeks, I’ve been making an effort to do better with this; see my post from last week Crazy talk for an example of all these conventions.

If I may say so, I’m particularly proud of that post because it gave me an opportunity to incorporate cute pictures and talk about some of the cute things Hayden’s been doing lately. I’m reluctant to post about both of these topics sometimes because I don’t know if most of my readers are really interested in Hayden’s little (mis)adventures. However, I thought (and I hope you agreed!) that the format of the post, and the pictures, helped to make the post more enjoyable all ’round.

Any more photo post advice?


Note that I still have two coupons for free professional photo montages—see the giveaway post for details, and leave a comment there to enter.

More tips from Works-for-me Wednesday

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Kids/Parenting Random

What should you take in a hospital bag?

One of my friends is a couple months away from having her first, and was looking for suggestions for her hospital bag. I tried to pare down my packing list for the hospital before going, and I’m pretty sure I’ll be able to pack lighter this time. If you’re wondering what to take to the hospital, here’s my list, with “BTDT” comments (“been there, done that”) in square brackets.

For L&D

  • Pillows [Meh; hospitals have pillows. Guess I’m not picky.]
  • Tennis ball for back massage during labor [Uh, no. Didn’t take it; wouldn’t have used it.]
  • Slippers, warm socks, robe [It was February; you might still want the robe and slippers in the summer though.]
  • Gum, snacks and hard candy [Meh]
  • Water bottle [The hospital provided one. Two, actually. And they wouldn’t let me drink during labor. Ice chips. Yum.]
  • Change/singles for vending machines [Oh yeah.]
  • Hair brush and hair ties [Definitely.]
  • Makeup (for pictures!) [Didn’t take pictures in the delivery room, but we did later.]
  • Camera [Ditto.]
  • Cell phone/phone card [Of course.]
  • Baby book to get baby feet stamped with ink! [The hospital gave me a sheet with footprints.]
  • Baby name book [If you’re open to last-minute choices and changes.]

Add to the list: any birthing/coaching materials you need, insurance card (duh).

Toiletries
You know, the bathroom supplies you’d take anywhere else.

  • Nail clippers [. . . for hangnails? What on earth?]
  • Contact lens case, solution, glasses, toothbrush, toothpaste, floss, deodorant
  • Shampoo, conditioner, soap, dark colored towel [I couldn’t get out of bed long enough to shower due to complications, but I think that hospitals tend to have these things. The dark-colored towel was to make sure it didn’t get mixed up with the hospital’s.]
  • Lotion, baby oil [I think I might have used them; it was winter.]
  • Nice SOFT toilet paper [Hospitals have TP, but I’m not picky.]
  • Hairdryer [Meh]
  • Large pads [Keep these at home; the hospital provided plenty.]
  • Nursing pads [Probably not necessary in the hospital, but nice to have just in case.]
  • Pillow with pillowcase other than white [So you don’t get it mixed up with hospital pillows.]
  • Burp cloths [Never used.]
  • Baby wipes [The hospital provided wipes and diapers.]
  • Card games and entertainment [We watched TV and looked at Hayden.]

Going home

  • Outfit for me to wear home [Duh.]
  • Nursing bra, underwear
  • Dermaplast (skin numbing spray) and Tucks pads [I’d keep those at home.]
  • Outfit for baby to wear home including hat, onesie, socks/booties, and blanket [Depends on the weather, of course. You don’t have to worry about any other clothes; the hospital provides onesies, hats and blankets while you’re in there. And they gave us the hat.]
  • Car seat [Can’t leave the hospital without one!]

Now, for a lot of these things, the hospital provided (lots of) them. This will, of course, vary, and yes, I suppose I did eventually pay for most of them in one way or another. However, I did look at my hospital bills and they didn’t charge me per baby wipe and sanitary napkin—but some hospitals do nitpick like that.

So, what could you not live without in the hospital?

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Contests

Giveaway: one free professional photo montage

I’ll confess: I’m a terrible mom. I have never, ever gotten professional portraits of my son. As part of my birthday gift last week, my mother (and sisters and brother-in-law) absconded with Hayden (and Marty) while I was at dinner and got professional portraits made. Since they’re copyrighted, I can’t post full-sized images, but here are the thumbnails from the website (fair use!):

thumbnail of professional portraits, 26 months

Can I just say that these are ridiculously cute? Not having been there during the shoot (or ever before), I’m absolutely amazed at what the photographer got Hayden to do.

Now, here comes the good part: I have four coupons to give away for a free 8×12 Perfect Treasure photo montage.

To be eligible, you must be a first-time customer to Kiddie Kandids (ie, you’ve never been there before). Please check their website or call 1-888-503-5336 to make sure that there’s a studio near you before signing up. The offer expires 17 May 2008 (hello Mother’s Day gift!). And warning: adorable photos of your children are addicting.

To get a coupon for a free 8×12 photo montage, leave a comment on this post before Monday, 14 April 2008*. If more than four people sign up, I’ll have a random drawing for the four winners. Please do not leave your mailing address here—I’ll contact the winners via email to get a mailing address.

* UPDATE: As of 15 April, I still have two certificates to give away—sign up before Thursday, 16 April 2008 for a chance to win!

Yes, I get something out of this if you use the coupon (AKA “Referral certificate”), but my mom didn’t remember what that was. And knowing me, by the time I get around to using it, it’ll have expired. So, hey, take a free photo. They’re adorable.

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Kids/Parenting

Crazy talk

Hayden’s at the age where he learns new words every day. Here are some of the latest additions to his vocabulary:

With my parents and most of my sisters around all last week, I got called by my first name a lot more than normal—enough that Hayden started calling me “Dordee,” and especially “Mom—Mom—Dordee.” (Don’t worry, he doesn’t really know what he’s doing; today when I asked him what my name was, he said it was “Haydie.”)


Yesterday I went in to get him up from his nap and he was jumping in his crib. He looked at me and said “kay see” several times, then shook his head wildly.

Hayden and his upside down trick, 26 months

It took me a minute to figure out that he was saying “crazy.” Which is usually one of the first things I say to him when he wakes up in one of these (wonderful, entertaining) manic moods.


This morning, we were in the grocery store and I sad, “Oh man!” Hayden repeated his version, something between “Oh men!” and “Oh min!” And then he added something that—I swear—sounded like “Bite me.” No idea where that one came from.


Today we were sitting in my room and he started gathering up loose clothes and papers from around the room, stuffing them into an empty box. As he did so, he would burst out with “Eee op! Eee op!” Luckily, I know the words to that song: “Clean up.”


I worky!Hayden’s newest favorite hobby is a bit alarming to me. He hops up in front of any available computer, starts playing with the mouse and keyboard and proclaims “I worky!” He is very devoted to his profession (whatever that is; probably something as nebulous as mine).

I promise, I really don’t work that much while he’s awake. I’ve been a bit worse lately about working while he’s awake, with him so obsessed with Blue’s Clues and all, but this? This is dedication.